Recently updated on October 14th, 2016
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Bismillah hirRahman nirRaheem
With The Name of ALLAH, The Beneficent and The Merciful
SallALLAHU ‘Ala Mu’hammad SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam
Dua for Anger Control
Anger is like a fire, anger is like a burning hot coal which will burn you if you touch it. Never be like a burning coal. ALLAH Azzawajal has granted a variety of emotions to human being. Without them we cannot even assume our lives. Anger, Love, Hatred, Jealousy, Cheerful, Excitement bla bla bla, do exist in our relationships. A father shows his anger to the child when he has got zero in class test. A police shows anger on the thief when they caught him red handed. An anger is nothing but showing a very strong feeling of displeasure, hostility, when any human gets annoyed. However we can find this emotion in animals too. Though, there must be a limit of each and every emotion. If it crosses it’s limit more than the extent, and it burst out in a flooded manner shows the abnormality. Anger usually appears within human when he doesn’t like anything and shows a reaction in the form of anger. Insha ALLAH you will get another powerful ya ALLAH Dua Wazaif to dominate your anger and staying calm and peaceful. Indubitably, anger comes when Satan provokes human. Therefore, do not motivate yourself or others to become angry. This will spoil your relationships, this is what a Satan wants.
Meaning of Anger or Temper:
Lexical meaning: The feeling one has toward something or someone that hurts, opposes, offends, or annoys, strong displeasure. (Example: In a moment of anger I hit my brother.) Islamic definition: It is a destructive fire! Prophetic hadith: “Anger is a burning coal …”
it results in the destruction of many noble qualities.
– It snatches away the wisdom of man and thus
he becomes a brute beast devoid of any sense.
– Anger is a temptation and deception of Shaitân.
– Anger is the root of all evils.
– Anger is a very bad condition that weakens the person’s Imân (faith).
Imam Mawlûd calls it a “swelling ocean,” that is he compares it to “a swelling mass of emotion that is difficult to hold back once it is unleashed.”
The Messenger of ALLAH, Prophet Muhammad SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam says
“Whoever curbs his anger, while being able to act, Allah will fill his heart with certainty of faith.”
Dua for Anger Control #1
By Prophet Sallallahu Alayhe Wasallam
أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ
English Transliteration:
“Aaoozu Billahe Minashshaitan Nirrajeem”
English Translation: “I seek refuge in Allah from the accursed Satan”. (Mishkat and Hisnul Hasin)
Dua for Anger Control #2
Surah Al-Baqarah (The Cow) – Verse #153
Recite this verse to have patience and get rid of your anger
“Ya Ayyo Halladina ‘AmanoosTa’noo Bissabr Wassalat Inna Lillaha M’assabereen”
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلَاةِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ
O you who believe! Seek help in patience and As-Salat (the prayer). Truly! Allah is with As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.).
Dua for Anger Control #1 in Roman English
Gusse se nijat pane ke liye Surah Al- Baqrah Ayat #153 ko zyada se zyada pade:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلَاةِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ
“Ya ayyuha allatheena amanoo istaAAeenoo bialssabri waalssalati inna Allaha maAAa alssabireena”
Dua for Anger Control #2 in Roman English
Recite 17 Surah Al-Isra – Verse #19 as many times as possible
وَمَنْ أَرَادَ الْآخِرَةَ وَسَعَىٰ لَهَا سَعْيَهَا وَهُوَ مُؤْمِنٌ فَأُولَـٰئِكَ كَانَ سَعْيُهُم مَّشْكُورًا
Waman arada alakhirata wasaAAa laha saAAyaha wahuwa muminun faolaika kana saAAyuhum mashkooran
Dominating your anger is a sign of a good strength of one’s personality. If you dare to control your anger you are really a winner.
“A man said to the Prophet SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam, ‘Give me advice.’ The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, ‘Do not get angry.’ The man asked repeatedly and the Prophet answered each time, ‘Do not get angry.’”
Related by Bukhari & Muslim
The Prophet SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam always says that the powerful man is not the one who can wrestle but he is one who can control himself at the time of anger.
If you find it difficult to dominate your anger, if you feel that anger is dominating you. I request you to go ahead with the above mentioned ya ALLAH Dua for anger control. Best of luck and stay calm, have a lot of patience because ALLAH is with the patient.
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